The "No Whining" thread.
Seeing some news about looters in England feeling sorry for themselves and excusing their behavior by their perceived state of the world, and some other news items got me thinking. (hmm, could be dangerous ) A lot of us have had some stress or bad stuff in our lives of late, whether personally, or just the world in general. Once in a while, if I watch the mainstream news too much, or think about losses that have occurred in life, mental whining just happens.
No more. While there must be space in life for grief and healing, it can't derail everything, or become an excuse for not doing what can be done to improve things. That is how I define whining; going on endlessly about it, or letting it become an excuse. So, no whining about stuff. Yes, having my mother in law with her dementia living at home is hard. Yes it was hard losing my Dad, it is hard to see my kids getting older if I choose to look at it that way, it is hard to see my high school friends at my reunion all looking older (I of course, look wonderful, except for that darned hair that keeps thinning ) So yeah, loss happens in life. Time to get up and do what can be done. No whining.
Today, it is beautiful out, I made breakfast for my sons and MIL, continued learning a new (for me) punk song. (Freaking fun, and a great challenge btw), and now I am going out to fire up the weed whacker and attack the overgrowth that occurred in the last few weeks. Hopefully I will get out on a MTB ride later too.
No whining. Carpe Diem!
(post no whining songs here).
Steve Thompson
Sun Valley, Idaho
Guitars: Fender 60th Anniversary Std. Strat, Squier CVC Tele Hagstrom Viking Semi-hollow, Joshua beach guitar, Martin SPD-16TR Dreadnought
Amphs: Peavey Classic 30, '61 Fender Concert
Effects and such: Boss: DS-1, CE-5, NS-2 and RC20XL looper, Digitech Bad Monkey, Korg AX1G Multi-effects, Berhinger: TU100 tuner, PB100 Clean Boost, Line 6 Toneport UX2, Electro Harmonix Little Big Muff Pi, DuhVoodooMan's Rabid Rodent Rat Clone, Zonkin Yellow Screamer Mk. II, MXR Carbon Copy Delay
love is the answer, at least for most of the questions in my heart. . .
- j. johnson