I have the same issues at times.
When we go anywhere as a family I usually insist on taking my car instead of my wife's because mine has a better sound system, especially with regard to the low end.
I also refuse to see concerts at the St. Petersburg Times forum and not solely because I'm not really a fan of arena shows but because that place eats up pretty much all the bass. Great venue for hockey but terrible for music.
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