This is probably a pretty obvious suggestion, but have you tried craigslist.com? If you haven't, it's right up your alley for the stipulations you've mentioned.
Somewhere in Southern Oregon or Northern California there must be someone selling one. If so e-mail me. skullcreekcamp@yahoo.com
Hands on trade only no Mail or UPS deals.
I have a very nice '62 Reissue Strat I could to throw in the deal.
This is probably a pretty obvious suggestion, but have you tried craigslist.com? If you haven't, it's right up your alley for the stipulations you've mentioned.