Glacies, it's no surprise that you feel stressed - you're experiencing some of the biggest life-stressors that exist. One of them is stressful; more than one at a time is difficult for almost anyone. One of the ways I deal with stress is to remind myself that I survived these things before (I'm nearly 60 and have been there many times in my life), and that they didn't turn out to be nearly as catastrophic as my imagination conjured up. That, plus drugs and alcohol....